Jacqueline Kennedy was not there when Marilyn Monroe held one of the most famous birthday parties in the world for John F. Kennedy and sang him “Happy Birthday, Mr. President” at a Democratic Party fundraiser and birthday soiree — on May 19, 1962, at Madison Square Garden in New York City.
The event was a star-studded gala held to mark Kennedy’s forthcoming 45th birthday and to raise money for the Democratic Party. One interpretation of the song by Marilyn Monroe — known for its sultry overtones — was one of the most memorable moments of the evening and attracted much attention (and speculation based on the breathy manner in which it was performed) from those in attendance, in part given rumors about the closeness between Monroe and Kennedy.
Jacqueline Kennedy’s absence was reportedly intentional. Known for her dignified demeanor and reserved nature, she often avoided such high-profile political events, particularly those featuring entertainment. There is speculation that her decision to skip the event was influenced by rumors surrounding her husband’s alleged affairs, including those involving Monroe. Instead, Jacqueline chose to spend the weekend at the family’s Virginia estate with their children.
This moment further fueled speculation about Monroe’s relationship with Kennedy, although the nature of their association remains a subject of debate. Jacqueline’s absence, combined with Monroe’s suggestive performance, added to the enduring intrigue and mythology surrounding the Kennedy presidency and Monroe’s tragic life.